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Showing posts with label learning. Show all posts
Showing posts with label learning. Show all posts

Monday, March 18, 2013

Cooking Up Some Learning

Four-year-old Collin grates a lemon with a little help.


Cooking Up Some Learning

So you want to teach some useful skills and some awesome lessons and have fun while you’re at it? 

Open the cook book, and break out the aprons, the mixing bowls, and the measuring spoons and cups.
Kids love to cook and bake. It’s tactile, it’s sensory, it's math, it's language, it’s seeing first hand what work can produce and then enjoying the result together. 

Our lemony zest buttermilk pancakes tasted sooo good. Collin made a triple decker pancake sandwich with whipped cream, syrup, and melted butter on his blueberry pancakes which he helped to make. 

"I can crack the eggs," he said proudly. He had done it before when we made brownies the last time.

So he was asked to tap the egg on the side of the mixing bowl without completely cracking open the egg. This time he learned how to separate the eggs. And the fun part was using the power tools - the mixer to whip up the egg whites to make our pancakes even fluffier - of course he learned first that the mixer must stay down in the bowl at all times and that both of his hands should stay on the handle and that he should keep his eyes focused on the task the whole time, and if he got tired, that it was alright to let an adult help him. 

And he did! It is a good idea to talk about what you are about to do before you do it.

The best part: we got to eat our work and then bundle up to go outside and play. All that cooking gave us lots of energy and a wonderful feeling of accomplishment. Plus it became part of our story. 
What is your story?

Good Luck!! Good Parenting!! And thanks for reading and sharing!
Bon :)

Using the "power tool" as friend, Chris likes to call it.



Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Kids Just Want to Help

Including your child as you do daily chores as a way to build confidence and bond.


We all have the daily drudgery of chores to deal with, and when you add on trying to care for a child, the stress can feel like it is beginning to pile up. 

Instead of plopping your child in front of the TV you might try asking your child to "help" you. 
Helping out will make your child feel needed and special and can provide a window of opportunity for dialogue and learning.

Chores are more fun when you look at them through your little one's eyes. Suddenly a towel becomes a magic carpet, a sheet a parachute, or a soap bubble a tiny world. With guidance you can let your child's curiosity lead to innovation, build a foundation for a future work ethic, and bond with you all at the same time!

So, get to work together and see what unfolds.

Good Luck, Good Parenting!!

Bon :)



Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Reading Aloud: The Gift of Gold

Did you know Goodnight Moon, Make Way for Ducklings and Charlotte's Web each contain all 44 sounds of the English language? Reading together is a lifetime gift you will give to your child. It is more precious than gold, and it is free. Start turning new pages and give your child the best chance at success by taking the time to instill him or her with a solid base for a lasting love of stories, books and reading.

As Jim Trelease points out,
'the one skill that matters above all is the child's vocabulary because it is a prime predictor of a child's success or failure in school.'
Early reading is not a chore, but rather a way for your child to score higher in school.

Story telling has been around since the beginning of time and it's how teachers communicate with children in kindergarten and elementary school. In the first four grades of a child's education, oral communication is a must for teaching and consequently, for learning. Most children are learning to read through the third grade, after that, the emphasis on oral teaching switches to reading to learn and it is hard for a child to make up the difference in vocabulary if it has not already been attained.

Studies show that children who are exposed to repeated meaningful sentences and questions will most likely have acquired a significant amount of vocabulary upon entering kindergarten. So forget the baby-talk, your kids will be smarter for it! Propping a child in front of the television does not help to build their vocabulary either, and in fact, is more harmful than meaningful.

Reading chapter books, without pictures, is very beneficial and engages the brain in new ways by allowing the child to formulate thoughts and visualize his or her own pictures. Remember that a child can be read aloud to at a level or two higher than he or she can read alone. The more you read together, the more vocabulary your child will have in his or her word arsenal by the time they start school.

I remember sitting in the hallway between my children's bedrooms and reading to them  from classics like The Three Musketeers and James and the Giant Peach. The four of them, two years apart, learned and built their vocabularies by listening to the language around them. My husband was famous for storytelling and created a whole series which he tailored specifically to the kids. He named the stories The Golden Children, and they still remember those stories to this day! It is easier for a child to retain new information when it is framed in a meaningful story.

It is gratifying when I see them doing the same with their own children, which I enjoy a whole lot more than the one am phone call from their college dorm asking me to listen to something they had written for class. Pay back is, well, it's rich! The sleep interruption was worth knowing I had passed down something priceless which they are now passing on to my grand children.

According to a study done by Hart and Risley, the discrepancy along socio-economic lines is quite large. They found that all parents love and want the best for their children, but the difference was how much vocabulary a child was exposed to in the course of two years, from seven months to age two-and-a-half.  After recording and transcribing any conversations and actions taking place in front of the child, 23 million bytes of information was collected, including every noun, verb, and adjective that was spoken. It was determined that children from professional families had an average of 45 million words already in their vocabulary vault, as opposed to children in working class families with 26 million and children in families below the poverty line with 13 million, by the time they started school.

How much of what a child understands is based largely on vocabulary. In elementary school most of the learning is done through oral instruction. Once a child starts to read, that vocabulary will either help or hinder comprehension. And a child and parent will experience bonding and develop an emotional closeness by identifying with the character's feelings in the stories.

Dr. Kevin Dwyer, President of the National Academy of School Psychologists, says 'reading aloud is a violence prevention program.' I agree. A child's ability to communicate and comprehend is dependent on language and is directly related to a child's ability to experience success in all realms. A feeling of success leads to a feeling of confidence and a feeling of confidence leads to a happier life and happy people commit less violence.

The ABC's of reading to a very young child can be remembered more easily if you follow the three simple rules below:

A. Always read with and to your child whenever possible.
B. Bring books out into your child's view in the home and make them accessible at all times. Give your child a book to take along when you go places, like the supermarket, the doctor's office, or even a restaurant.
C. Choose stories for your home library by visiting the public library often and remembering to read aloud from books a level or two above what a child can read alone.

Robert at the Lunenburg Public Library


Books I recommend:

1. Tell Me a Story by Roger C. Shank
2. The Read Aloud Handbook by Jim Trelease
3. The Princess Bride: S. Morgenstern's Classic Tale of True Love and High Adventure: The Good Parts Version Abridged, 25th Anniversary ed. (New York: Ballantine, 2000)

Good Luck! Good Parenting!

Bon :)

* Photo Courtesy of Penny Goguen Cole (Top)

Son-in-law, Doug and Robert

Son-in-law, Doug and  Robert
Reading, Writing, Arithmetic

Daughter-in-law, Mich,Steve,& Collin

Daughter-in-law, Mich,Steve,& Collin
Family Hike

Mom and Daughter Nat

Mom and Daughter Nat
Mom and Future Mom

Jillian and Sean w/ Molly

Jillian and Sean w/ Molly
Group Hug

Excerpt from Growing Up Crazy by Bonnie J.Toomey

Freeze Pops



Winter 1972







There’s ice on my bedroom window in little cornered crescents. It’s still dark out, but it is time to get up for school anyway which I happen to like a lot.



I wriggle out of my pajamas and pull on a hand me down sweater and jeans from my aunt who works as a nurse in Boston. She was always giving us bags of clothes which I would pull apart and alter to fit my style and size. This gave my wardrobe an eccentric and eclectic look all its own which I thought was quite individual and even artsy.



I hated to leave the warmth under the pile of blankets and old coats I had layered on for extra insulation at night. It could get pretty cold upstairs this time of year, and the transition from clothes to no clothes to clothes again was a little unpleasant in the wintertime. There’s never been heat up here, Dad didn’t put it in, but instead cut a hole in the floor the size of a wood stove chimney pipe to let whatever heat rise up from our wood stove down in the kitchen.



“Heat rises,” was how Dad explained it to us. I kept thinking, well maybe it does, but I sure can’t feel it up here.



It is colder than usual this morning. My fingers don’t work as quickly as I want them to. I head downstairs where mom and dad are hunkered under some blankets on the couch which they must have dragged in front of the fireplace during the night. They’re still sleeping. Dad’s head at one end of the couch and mom curled up at the other end.



I grab my bag and step outside into the ice cold morning and my nostrils form tiny icy needles on the first breath in sticking together like metallic glue. Luckily, the bus arrives in less than a minute but long enough to finish turning my toes in my sneakers into ten freeze pops.



I slide in next to Claire careful not to break off any digits.



“Vaugn, you look really cold,” she says, very concerned. The newscaster on the bus radio says that it’s five degrees this morning over central New England, and that it warmed up from the overnight low of zero.



I explain that I think our furnace broke again and she offers me her mittens with the fancy rabbit fur cuffs.



“Thanks, Claire,” I say, and between her offering and the noisy over head heater blowing puffs of warmth into the air, I thought I had died and gone to heaven.



Excerpt from Leaf Landing by Bonnie J. Toomey

French Lesson







French is not the easiest class to miss.



I missed almost two weeks straight



after Mom died



and a lot of other days before that



and now I am really behind.



Mom wanted me to take French



because she thought it would help



in ballet class.



Dad lost a couple of bids.



He says people are losing



their jobs,



the economy is bad



The TV keeps warning



unemployment is up,



gas prices are up



and people are fed up.



I don’t know why Dad



has to watch



it only makes him



yell at the TV



Dad says we need to conserve more than we have been



now the house feels cooler.



When I complain,



Dad says



to go outside and come back in ,



then I’ll feel warmer.



Harriet and I spend our time bundled in



an extra layer of clothes



or dragging an afghan around



like giant moths in cocoons.



We are out of butter again.



Dad says



to try using peanut butter.



Well, isn’t the word,



butter,



in it?



Harriett won’t eat her toast



and it just sits on the plate



getting cold



like the floors



in this house



and suddenly the one phrase



in French,



“It is cold.” comes back to me:



“Il fait froid,



la maison est fait froide."